Topic: Attraction

From Meeting #3
Attraction: accentuation of a favorable feature (of your eyes, through makeup) is better than trying to cover up an unfavorable one?

accentuation is based on the audience and the persons intentions.

-Attraction: the action or power of drawing forth a response. catches attention -Appeal: The power to attract, please, or interest people.to entreat, petition for.

the desire, yearning.

What is the difference between an appealing sandwich and an attractive sandwich? Are we attracted to the Architecture, or is it appealing?

A+B are both appealing, but A is more attractive

In some cultures Fatness is more attractive, and in others, yellow teeth are. Attraction is subjective and situational (as with most things) Their is an American Bias.

power is attraction? social validation

physiological aspects - Why are you attracted?

different categories of attraction/ opposites attract. (it could be that if you dislike your self then the same is not attractive, but if you like yourself you will favors others like you, their for opposites may not attract if you love yourself?)

satisfaction -curiosity/urges

People go off and have sex with each other to test the waters, but why go into a septic tank if you know if will melt your skin off?

attraction is multi-sensory (the most powerful) smell, vision, touch (taste, hearing) and the mind.

Limerence (infatuation, lust) vs. Love.

!!Love>Limerence>Lust ?!!

Newness factor

Attractive Trauma - a rape victim (rapie) will seek promiscuity because the victim has not come to terms with the traumatic event. EXPOSURE

are people just objects, or are they more?

prima facia - first blush Intuitive - In To It.

Everything is attractive to babies -the goal of childhood is positive (morals) -they are "attracted" to attractive faces -is attractiveness innate? for facial attractiveness is apparent in unexpired babies/ are they attracted to people who care.

where in the brain is the attractiveness scale located? -is it written or wrote

sexual attraction vs. love (appreciation/fondness)

when a baby cries a woman who has been pregnant feels love (emotional) and panic when it happens

Pure Pleasure seeking. Wrong?

precedent (based on past experience)/curiosity/social acceptance

superficial vs. deep (notficial)

Creativity/Spontaneity - is like a mutation based on improvisation

-conserves-behavior brought about by precedence to something.

innate vs. learned attraction fulfills need

MEME (memetics) is the idea that ideas operate in the same way the genes and organisms do such that they compete and are based on natural selection.

Ironic Processing (The Game) - that which resists persists

memetic with spontaneity theory leads to algorithmic stuff

programing yourself

the Chau said Mu.

-Social Darwinism - social fitness

Media
Science of Sex videos:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lteRuDOrnq4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlJw2_NnVLo&feature=channel (body shapes)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FB1oMfs8nWY&feature=channel (out of your league?) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtNXlqUnrL8&feature=channel (choosy women)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DfdXhwYdQUE&feature=channel (sexy walk)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiHz9iK_HZg&feature=channel (mating)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJgWvjUsizg&feature=channel (Flirting)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dl3da490MTY&feature=channel (incest)